The common symptoms of
adhd include restlessness, irritable.
That specially happens when the prefrontal cortex is impaired. An interesting
thing is that when an important event occurs the prefrontal cortex will pop on
and awaken. Arguments and conflicts will do the same. People with ADHD
often become conflict driven. ADD people fight for no reason at all, but the
fights do them some good for a short period of time by actually helping their
brain function in a much better way.
All these problems in ADHD
people can lead to social difficulties and can end in ostracism. Their
judgment is impaired and they will do things and say things that will confuse
other people. This leads to isolation and a feeling of failure which in low or
lack of self-esteem. In the past the social and self esteem problems with
ADD/ADHD have been ignored in the past and I think they are as important as the
other people who do not have the disease. These people have career problems due
to ADD, so these people are important too.
Help is now available with
the stimulants or ADHD-care which is effective. ADHD-care is known as
the traditional and natural supplement at the Amen clinic, by SPECT brain
imaging and the Conner’s ADHD impulsivity test. The condition of severe self-esteem and
social problems are not to be ignored or the results will be severe.
Other strategies can be
shopping lists and lists of daily responsibilities, a calendar of important
dates, routine to simplify housework as much as possible, planning projects and
outlining in advance. The non ADHD partner is supposed to take responsibility
of any financial or legal problems that occur and should make sure that any
resentment does not arise. Reminders should be set on the computers or
cellphones so tasks that need to be done can be done.
The relationship problems
might not even be there if the ADHD partner has everything under
control. Medicines are available for that and are discussed on the websites.
But drugs might be insufficient. There is only so much medication can do so it
may be a good idea to speak to a psychologist experienced in attention deficit
disorder. Counseling or cognitive behavioral therapy are useful for some
sufferers.
Other helpful techniques
can be group therapy, family therapy, coaching, tutoring, physical exercise,
proper rest, and adequate nutrition. ADHD
and partner-focused peer support groups can also help. Marriage counseling can
also be used to resolve issues that arise in a relationship due to ADHD.